You have to learn to say no without feeling guilty. Setting boundaries is healthy. You need to learn to respect and take care of yourself.
And I don’t believe in such a thing as “happily ever after”. There’s only happily every now and then. I find the hardest trick is to recognize the now-and-thens, and to bask in them when they come. Happiness is a choice we make, like how to wear our hair, or having coffee with breakfast and tea at night.
― Cindy Bonner (via observando)
How do we forgive ourselves for all of the things we did not become?
― David ‘Doc’ Luben , 14 Lines from Love Letters or Suicide Notes (via 13neighbors)